Genesis 39:6-12
So he left all that he had in Joseph’s charge, and because of him he had no concern about anything but the food he ate.
Now Joseph was handsome in form and appearance. And after a time his master’s wife cast her eyes on Joseph and said, “Lie with me.” But he refused and said to his master’s wife, “Behold, because of me my master has no concern about anything in the house, and he has put everything that he has in my charge. He is not greater in this house than I am, nor has he kept back anything from me except you, because you are his wife. How then can I do this great wickedness and sin against God?” And as she spoke to Joseph day after day, he would not listen to her, to lie beside her or to be with her.
But one day, when he went into the house to do his work and none of the men of the house was there in the house, she caught him by his garment, saying, “Lie with me.” But he left his garment in her hand and fled and got out of the house.
(Genesis 39:6-12 ESV)
The Point
Leaders are often tempted to step outside of their Stewardship. It usually comes in two forms: Money and Sex. Both will destroy you, your family, and your ministry.
Teach It
The past few years has seen many promanent Christian leaders fall to sexual sin.
Temptation will befall every Christian leader; there is no way to avoid it.
Joseph did the right thing: He ran.
Finally, after saying no and even fleeing from the temptation, which is exactly what he should have done, his temptress concocted a story to humiliate him.
Joseph found himself in a bad situation that he had no control over because he was a slave. His fate was completely in his masters’ hands.
We can handle temptation differently.
- We can completely flee the scene. Joseph had to go back every day, we don’t have to.
- We can tell someone. Joseph had no one to turn to, but we can let someone know what is going on.
- We can never flirt back with any temptation. Give it an inch and you’ll go a mile. Temptation is a slippery slope.
Joseph ended up losing everything God had given him because of one woman. While it was no fault of his own, it shows just how badly things can go wrong when you can’t get out of a situation where you are tempted to sin.
You can lose you job, your ministry, your family; you could even go to jail.
Discussion Questions
If you have an open group, talk about a time that you fell to some temptation and paid a price for it. After sharing, have your students talk about the same thing.
Talk about different Christian leaders that have fallen in some scandal in the last few years. They aren’t hard to find on the internet.
What is different when a leader falls to a temptation and sins? Why is it more serious when it happens to a leader than to a person who isn’t?
How should we handle leaders who have sinned? What should your personal response be? What should the organization’s response be?
Activity
Discuss the incident between King David and Bathsheba.
First, what happened?
How could King David have avoided the whole situation?
How was David’s sin found out?
What were the ramifications of David and Bathsheba’s sin?
